Following this note will be a final flurry of posts on this topic, ending up with Tony's second attempt at an explanation. Being the end of the week, it's a good time to end it. Rather than alienate and chase him away and/or criticize his lifestyle, we should be helping him to get over and understand the issue. Tony has apologized to those who took offense, let's accept it and move on. Dave (Moderator for the weekend)