Re: [DMCForum] Confidence. [was: Battle of the Sexes.]
From: DMCVIN6683 <dmcvin6683@xxxxxxxxx>
Date: Wed, 21 Jul 2004 19:03:15 -0500
I am average looking.
Remember guys go to bars and clubs to get laid, Women know this so that
means she can pick or choose or just be stuck up. Most Men in the bar
will do almost any Woman in the bar if they have "beer goggles" on but
the Woman has to want to get laid.
Now a guy going to the bar wanting to get laid has to work to get the
Woman since there are so many other Men in the bar wanting to get laid.
The Women know this so she can get laid several times in one night by
different men if she chooses to just because SHE has something WE WANT.
Now on the other hand the guy might get lucky once that night but he
had to work to get laid, thats why Women that do this are called sluts
and we are just called Men.
I knew lots of Women that did this when i went out clubbing, in fact
they had contests between their friends who could get laid more. I
called them Bitches because Bitches are Sluts that will screw everyone
besides you and i never had a chance with them because they were above
average and they could pick and choose.
Moral of the story..... I guess no matter what sex you are if you are
Hot enough you can get laid more than once a night.
I can not believe i just had this conversation.
Mark V
On Wednesday, July 21, 2004, at 06:54 PM, Farrar Hudkins wrote:
> You must be a lot better-looking than I am.
>
> I don't give love, money, food, or -anything-, for sex. May explain why
> I don't get laid much, but also may explain why I've never been
> head-over-heels for a woman like a lot of guys are, and why I have no
> regrets about my behaviour.
>
> The reason your average woman would win the contest you described and
> the average man would lose is because the average woman has more
> confidence in her looks and personality than your average man. The
> average woman is used to having her ass kissed; nobody kisses the
> average man's ass. The average woman has been treated like a goddess by
> her previous boyfriends; the average man has been dumped more times
> than
> he would care to remember (probably because he kissed up too much).
> This
> all has an effect on self-image and self-confidence. If you're treated
> well, you'll think highly of yourself; if you're treated badly, you're
> going to think badly of yourself -- ask any parent.
>
> Confidence can be like a game, though. It's like going into a job
> interview -- if you believe you're the man for the job, the guy
> interviewing you will get that vibe from you and your chances of
> getting
> the job are good. If you think "Gosh, I'm not really qualified and I'm
> sure there are other people out there who could do this job better,"
> they'll pick up on -that- vibe and your chances of getting the job are
> not so good. I went into the interview for my current job
> underqualified, but a good suit and black coffee and some self-talk,
> not
> to mention a pretty braggadocio cover letter, helped me immensely, I'm
> sure. Whenever I go into a situation where I need a good self-image, I
> psych myself up and remember all the good things about myself so that I
> can project confidence.
>
> Back to the female thing ... I call women brats a lot, namely because
> so
> many of them my age do bratty things. So many women in their 20s and
> 30s
> are ridiculously immature. I've even told some women "Call me when you
> grow up." Some people still act like they're in high school, and it's
> pathetic. I call everything like I see it -- this results in my getting
> a reputation as being very opinionated, but I do have a relatively open
> mind. I learned a long time ago that life's a lot easier if I'm just
> honest all the time. It might make me some enemies, but my friends are
> close and we have a lot of mutual respect for one another. (Especially
> the female ones.)
>
> Generalizations suck but I'll have to use them a few more times... I
> think a lot of male/female interaction has to do with confidence. Most
> little boys tease girls out on the playground, then for some reason
> become absolutely whipped during their teenage years, and they learn
> manipulative behaviour along the way somewhere. Some males grow up to
> be
> self-confident, and others never get out of that needy phase that they
> went through as a pubescent hormone-bag.
>
> A woman told me the following: a guy who is confident, no matter what
> he
> looks like, can have an easy time with women. She also said that women
> can practically -smell- a lack of confidence in a man. After studying
> this, I've found it to be true. I have a much easier time with women
> now
> that I've stopped caring what they think of me. It doesn't make any
> sense, but then again neither does female psychology from what I can
> see.
>
> What she told me was true, though -- I know guys who are not even as
> good-looking as I am (and calling me good-looking is a stretch), and
> the
> women adore them. Basically, the guys just -act- as if they're
> desirable, and somehow it makes them so. I'm still working on that
> technique, but admittedly I don't go out much to meet people these
> days.
>
> Look at confidence another way: Take the term "con man". Comes from
> "confidence trickster". How did these guys work? They had so much
> confidence in what they said that people simply believed them. They
> tricked people by being confident. Confidence works, even if it's
> fake. ;)
>
> Whew. I'm exhausted. :P~
>
> --Farrar
>
> DMCVIN6683 wrote:
>> ahh you conclusion only works if the Man is a Chippendale.
>>
>> Take an average Man and an average Woman, place them both in a Bar or
>> Night Club, have them have a contest to see who gets laid the most.
>>
>> The Woman will win every time. Men want sex and Women use that to
>> their
>> advantage so they give sex for love and Men give love for sex.
>>
>> The last time i told a Woman she was a brat was 4th grade.
>>
>> Mark V
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